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Do you treat your friends and family better than you treat yourself?

According to the New York Times, many people who find it easy to be supportive and understanding to others, often score very low on self-compassion tests, berating themselves for perceived failures like being overweight or not exercising.

There’s research showing that giving ourselves a break and accepting our imperfections may be the first step toward better health. People who score high on tests of self-compassion have less depression and anxiety, and tend to be happier and more optimistic. Preliminary data suggest that self-compassion can even influence how much we eat and may help some people lose weight

The researchers say self-compassion is not to be confused with self-indulgence or lower standards, and the biggest reason people aren’t more self-compassionate is that they are afraid they’ll become self-indulgent.

For those low on the scale, they suggest exercises — like writing yourself a letter of support. They are also starting a controlled study to determine whether teaching self-compassion actually leads to lower stress, depression and anxiety and more happiness and life satisfaction.

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